CONSTERNATIONS!
Here is the same view on my system, running 5 cameras. As you can see my system has been up and running for 24 days 10 hours +.

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So what is different?
My PC has more physical memory than yours (6GB vs 4GB), but that should not be the problem. Besides, I am only using 36% of it with 5 cameras so I "should" only need 2GB! so your 4GB should be more than enough.
My Cache is much bigger (4GB vs 64MB) but I would not expect that to be a problem as I am not really using it for anything. I have heard in days of yore that Winders does "need" a cache defined, but I would expect the system minimum to be enough and I cannot fathom what "more" would do.
My system is showing 16K handles in use but yours shows 46K and that seems quite excessive for a bare bones system running. I even have an extra program running in the background that shows the date/time on screen in big numbers (and can have alarms set, so it is busy every second processing to see if an alarm message should be displayed). I am not running any anti-malware since this PC is not on the internet.
I have half as many "Threads" (672 vs 1237) and half the "Processes" (54 vs 99). What are the extra "Processes" in your system? I have
9 "Vitamin D Agent.exe *32"
1 "Vitamin D Video.exe *32"
12 "svchost.exe"
and 32 other processes (most of which I have no idea what they do!)
so a total count of 54, which is what the display above shows.
Your Kernel Memory is way over the top, too. The relative distribution is reversed from mine, too. Most of mine is out in the "Page" file (also known as the "Swap" file). This implies to me that your operating system is hung up trying to perform some action for a user program that it cannot get done. Like maybe VDV is asking to write to the disk or to the network and it is not occuring so the OS is stacking the requests until memory is full (the "leak").
I wonder how many "svchost" processes you have running? Or if you have some other process that shows multiple instances in the process list (be sure you enable "Show processes for all users" if/when you look).
Thimkin' whilst I am typing, I wonder what size your swap file is set to be. I wonder if the OS is tied up trying to write something to it and the writes are stacked up too deep to ever process.
I also wonder what the "Indexing" options are set to. Maybe the system is trying to index all the VDV files and can't keep up for some reason? Might help to shut off indexing altogether. (and, obviously, might not!)
Wish I knew more about the whole thing... that would make the "guessing" a lot simpler! Sorry I cannot just pinpoint the problem right away.